Get to Know Ruby

Specialties

Dating
Anxiety
Self Esteem
Analysis Paralysis
Wrongly labeled “nice guys”

My Approach

In this difficult modern day World of dating, I help the good-intentioned gentleman, the guys who are unseen, build confidence, feel hopeful, and get on a date through a customized strategy that doesn't require them to change who they are.

If you are a person with impeccable intelligence, limitless generosity, and the most kind soul, yet you have so many questions in regards to dating. You're confused, uncomfortable, and almost fed up. Well, don’t worry, I got your back!

It is my mission to help those gain the skills to attract the right woman for you. I am here to bring out the best in you. I am here to help you reach your highest potential, knowing your OWN strengths and weaknesses (no one is perfect!).

I help my clients through an approach similar to CBT — I support you where you are, then change the cycle that isn’t working for you, to build a strong foundation for dating. As a coach, I have a straight-forward no B.S., direct, and action-oriented approach….while making this fun for you!

My Professional Background

I earned my Bachelors degree in Social Work from San Diego State University, then my Masters degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of Southern California (earning the spot to be the Student Commencement speaker my graduating year). I have worked with many couples to enhance their overall satisfaction and overcome struggles in their relationship.

I then worked with the matchmaking firm It's Just Lunch, and then became the lead matchmaker and coach at eHarmony's premium service, eH+. I have helped hundreds of clients search for their special person, coached those to be successful, and helped clients get happily married and in relationships. That got me the opportunity to also be a Tedx Speaker.

This passion of mine has been my whole life. I knew I wanted to work in the dating and love industry since high school.

I wanted to make sure I had all the tools under my belt to help singles. I am dedicating my energy to help you unleash a part of you to attract the one you’ve been looking for.

Education, Training, and Certifications

Bachelors from San Diego State University
Masters from University of Southern California

Fun Facts

I’ve been known to always take the unconventional route :P my mother wanted me to be quiet, do ballet, be elegant, and follow the path my degree laid out. I ended up being vocal, dancing hip-hop, dyed my hair purple, and a dating coach.